Some people will think you\u2019re rude and selfish and others might respect the way you stand up for yourself and again, none of it truly has anything to do with who you are. In those twenty-seven thousand days that you get if you\u2019re lucky, you have endless dreams to follow, thousands of places to visit, meet tons of people, make a lot of memories, and most importantly chase your passion. So, if you\u2019re not confident about taking action now, what I\u2019d suggest is to pretend. You can pretend to be outgoing, pretend to be a leader, pretend to be disciplined, pretend to be obsessed if that\u2019s what you’ve always wanted. Do not be worried about not knowing who you are because that\u2019s exactly who you are. A person; trying new things, exploring, creating, evolving, and figuring it out. And this is your first time living a life, so don\u2019t be afraid to make mistakes. Remember, there\u2019s no guide to life; everything you do is a choice, not a rule.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve stopped trying to control the way others view me because I simply can\u2019t. I\u2019m fine with being misunderstood because it is a part of my nature. I let them be wrong about me because they can only understand me as deeply as they understand themselves. I have no authority over how other people view me so I might as well just go on with living my most authentic and joyful life making each. day. count. So, if you\u2019re not happy now then change. shift gears, and take a chance because later is not guaranteed. life is not meant to be lived later so always look for a moment. A moment to create, explore, try, learn, and have fun. Try to collect a moment every day because in finding those moments, days will never blur. In those moments, you\u2019ll surely find yourself.    <\/p>\n\n\n\n

By: Anushka Subedi (Management, B2)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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An average person lives around 27,375 days. That\u2019s all we get if we\u2019re lucky. \u201cTwenty-seven thousand three hundred and seventy-five.\u201d At first, I thought it didn\u2019t seem like a lot of time, but how many days do we remember anyway? Most days pass unnoticed, unremarkable, and unmarked. A day passes in a blur. So many of mine did. They were lost in wandering in schools, procrastinating, and maintaining schedules. It felt like my life was becoming a series of forgotten days. Everything was saved for later. Living my life spontaneously? Later. Traveling? Later. And studying? Later.\u00a0 So, I asked myself \u201cWhy do I save everything for later?\u201d It was because I had no confidence at all. I was very afraid and always thought of what might go wrong and what people would think about me\u2014and being vulnerable? Being vulnerable is very scary. For most of my life, I have always been a people pleaser so I often think about the different characters I play in everyone\u2019s story. I am a hero in some. A bad guy to others. But I realized that none of it has to do with the person I am. The lens that others view you through is colored by their upbringing beliefs, and individual experiences. Some people see your bright personality as endearing and others see it as annoying. Some might think you\u2019re weak and emotional while others might feel safe being around you. Some people will think you\u2019re rude and selfish and others might respect the way you stand up for yourself and again, none of it truly has anything to do with who you are. In those twenty-seven thousand days that you get if you\u2019re lucky, you have endless dreams to follow, thousands of places to visit, meet tons of people, make a lot of memories, and most importantly chase your passion. So, if you\u2019re not confident about taking action now, what I\u2019d suggest is to pretend. You can pretend to be outgoing, pretend to be a leader, pretend to be disciplined, pretend to be obsessed if that\u2019s what you’ve always wanted. Do not be worried about not knowing who you are because that\u2019s exactly who you are. A person; trying new things, exploring, creating, evolving, and figuring it out. And this is your first time living a life, so don\u2019t be afraid to make mistakes. Remember, there\u2019s no guide to life; everything you do is a choice, not a rule.\u00a0 I\u2019ve stopped trying to control the way others view me because I simply can\u2019t. I\u2019m fine with being misunderstood because it is a part of my nature. I let them be wrong about me because they can only understand me as deeply as they understand themselves. I have no authority over how other people view me so I might as well just go on with living my most authentic and joyful life making each. day. count. So, if you\u2019re not happy now then change. shift gears, and take a chance because later is not guaranteed. life is not meant to be lived later so always look for a moment. A moment to create, explore, try, learn, and have fun. Try to collect a moment every day because in finding those moments, days will never blur. 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